Showing posts with label humility. Show all posts
Showing posts with label humility. Show all posts

Sunday, January 24, 2021

Doctrine and Covenant 3-5: "My Work Shall Go Forth"

This week's Come Follow Me Study covered Doctrine and Covenants 3-5

A brief summary of each section:

  • D&C 3 - The Lord chastises but also encourages Joseph Smith after Martin Harris loses the 116 pages of manuscript that Joseph had translated.
  • D&C 4 - The Lord tells Joseph Smith's father what he can do now (missionary work).
  • D&C 5 - The Lord chastises and teaches Martin Harris about faith.
What themes came to mind for you as you studied these scriptures? 

I  had several scriptures that stood out to me:


D&C 3:4 is one that I have been thinking about a lot because I recently read a wonderful, thought-provoking talk by President Dallin H. Oaks (before he was in the first presidency), called "Our Strengths Can Become Our Downfall," from 1992. He said: (click to enlarge quote)






The interesting thing about President Oaks caution and the reprimand given to Joseph Smith is that Joseph Smith was quite a humble and obedient man. The Lord was unhappy with him because he had already said, "no" to allowing Joseph to give Martin Harris the pages 116 pages of the manuscript to take home to his doubting wife and family, but Joseph kept asking. In some ways, I admire the deep relationship that Joseph Smith had with the Lord that like a child to a father (for isn't that what he was?) he heard "no" and asked again and again. However, the Lord reminds Joseph that as our Heavenly Father:

"God doth not walk in crooked paths, neither doth he turn to the right hand nor to the left, neither doth he vary from that he he hath said, therefore, his paths are straight, and his course is one eternal round." (Doctrine and Covenants 3:2)

Joseph was not the first, and likely not the last, prophet to be reprimanded by the Lord for letting his mortal fears get the best of him. I was really touched by the additional perspective about Joseph Smith and Martin Harris that was given in the "Come Follow Me - For Individuals and Families" manual:

Early in Joseph Smith’s ministry, good friends were hard to come by—especially friends like Martin Harris, a respected, prosperous man, who was in a position to provide valuable support. And Martin willingly supported Joseph, even though it cost him the respect of his peers and required financial sacrifice.

So it’s easy to see why Joseph wanted to honor Martin’s request to take the first portion of the Book of Mormon translation to show his wife, who doubted the truth of the Book of Mormon. Joseph continued to ask the Lord about this request, even when He forbade it, until finally, after Joseph asked a third time, the Lord said yes. Tragically, the manuscript was lost while it was in Martin’s possession, and Joseph and Martin were sharply chastised by the Lord (see Saints, 1:51–53).


As well as by: See also “The Contributions of Martin Harris,” Revelations in Context, 1–9, history.ChurchofJesusChrist.org.

It's easy to see someone's mistake in hindsight, but doesn't this personalize things so much more? How much more can you relate to losing these manuscripts now that you see that Joseph DID ask and wait to get a "yes" but he asked persistently because he so badly wanted to help Martin Harris. I identify with this experience so much. In a previous calling, I had a Martin Harris, which is to say, like Martin Harris, this individual was a very good person that did a lot of selfless things in the name of the Lord. I made a decision that I thought would benefit my "Martin Harris" because I loved this person and wanted to reassure this person about their self-worth. However, my desires, though they came from a good place, were maybe not as in line with the Lord's as I thought they would be, and I experienced my own loss of manuscripts, essentially. It was a pivotal moment in my scripture study this week to read this perspective about Martin Harris and Joseph Smith, and look at it from the context of my own devastating experience.

The Lord goes on to remind Joseph that he should not have feared man more than God. It's a powerful reminder that "fear" does not have to mean sheer terror. The point is that the Lord will support us and be with us if we will rely in him. I think this advice could be extended to Martin Harris, that Joseph could have felt that Martin's problems would eventually be resolved without the need to take home the 116 pages of the manuscript.


I shared this quote because President Nelson reminds us that not only do we need not fear with God in our life, but we should turn to the Lord for revelations so that we can have increased direction in our life.



It's also to remember that the Lord has said he chastises whom he loves. God is merciful:

There are so many scriptures to ponder and discuss here but I'll settle on just one more:



First, this reminds of Neil L. Anderson's talk, "We Talk of Christ." that was quoted in sacrament by an outgoing missionary today:

I promise you that as you prepare yourselves, as President Nelson did, you too will be different, thinking more about the Savior, speaking of Him more frequently and with less hesitation. As you come to know and love Him even more deeply, your words will flow more comfortably, as they do when you speak of one of your children or of a dear friend. Those listening to you will feel less like debating or dismissing you and more like learning from you.

Second, I think one valuable way to read this scripture as a family is to have each family member pick one of the qualities listed for doing the Lord's work and have each person share what they picked and why. Or, pick one a day and spend some time studying each of those qualities. 

I picked three qualities above and have three quotes to share:


Here's his story about the semi-truck losing its tire:
"A few years ago, I was driving home from work when a large semitruck, traveling in the opposite direction, lost one of its dual tires. The tire flew over the median separating our lanes. It came bouncing down my side of the freeway. Cars were swerving in both directions, drivers not knowing which direction the tire would bounce next. I dodged left when I should have dodged right, and the tire took its final bounce right on the corner of my windshield.

A friend called my wife to inform her of the accident. She told me later that her first thought was of lacerations from shattered glass. Indeed, I was covered with beads of broken glass but did not suffer a single scratch. It was definitely not because of my driving skills; rather, it was because the windshield of my little car was made of tempered glass."





I guess I will share one more scripture. In Doctrine and Covenants 5:33-35, the Lord says, "33. And there are many that lie in wait to destroy thee from off the face of the earth; and for this cause, that thy days may be prolonged, I have given unto thee these commandments. 34. Yea, for this cause I have said: Stop, and stand still until I command thee, and I will provide means whereby thou mayest accomplish the thing which I have commanded thee. 35. And if thou art faithful in keeping my commandments, thou shalt be lifted up at the last day. Amen."

I share my testimony that I know my Heavenly Father is real and true, and that thou there may be enemies that "wait to destroy" upon this earth, our Father in Heaven loves us and has a plan for us, that we can follow by remaining faithful to his commandments.








Sunday, January 3, 2021

Learning from the Doctrine & Covenants to "Prepare Ye" in Humility and Faith (D&C 1)

I'm teaching on Sunday, the first Sunday School of the New Year!

Since I've prepared a lesson, I'm just sharing a number of the slides that I've prepared. These are most of the slides, not all of them, and just because I have them below doesn't mean I've actually use them in class.  The slides are meant to drive discussion so I'll only add a few thoughts here and there related to what I was thinking about as a discussion point when I created the slide. As a reminder, you can click on the images below to view them full size.

The first few slides apply to starting the new year with a new scripture study area, but it also applies to the contents of Doctrine and Covenants 1, which is: How are you going to study your scriptures this year based on what you learned about yourself last year?

Referring to the known difficulties of 2020, President Nelson asked the below question. I think the way we studied our scriptures and listened to the Lord in prayer as we dealt with a difficult year will affect our answer to this question:




More specifically, think about how you can improve this year based on what you did last year?


This text from the beginning of the Come Follow Me manual reminds us of WHY this is important:

Now, on to D&C 1! If you read the Come Follow Me guide, you have already been reminded that Doctrine and Covenants is special because it's the only book that was given as latter-day revelation instead of a translation of earlier recorded works.


I'll try to let the class steer the conversation with the above questions but I also have my own answers of some of the themes I saw, and how that influenced how I will study Doctrine and Covenants this year. For instance, these scriptures stood out to me:

Some talks and quotes that came to my mind as I studied the above scriptures:





I also have a passage from a blog post that I wrote in August 2020 about Alma 43-52, and how much it focused on Moroni and how he prepared his people.

I want to also make sure the class was aware that President Nelson talks about these things in this month's issue of the Liahona, which is linked right from the home page of www.churchofjesuschrist.org





Here's another scripture and theme that really stood out for me:


Elder Nash, speaking to BYU-Idaho in 2019, helped the students there understand how Joseph Smith was an example of a weak thing made strong:

I had not read about how the preface to the Book of Mormon came about before, and was blown away. This was linked to from the Come Follow Me for Individuals and Families guide but I'm linking to it here again because it's worth a read! It was so powerful for me to see how aware the council was of Joseph Smith's poor grammar and lack of education. I thought of so many examples of people being misjudged as weak. I have an example in here later of Tom Holdman and how the Lord made him strong in his weakness.



This is an incredible article that I have read many times. I highly recommend it. I planned to talk about this slide, but President Oaks (Elder Oaks at the time) gives a number of very specific examples of how strengths can become weaknesses, but how that doesn't mean we should hold back from using our strengths. It means we need to always have HUMILITY to make sure we are using our strengths in the right way, and not for personal glory and gain. He quotes the above Ether 12:27 to remind us the importance of humility:











We are reminded that we are not perfect, that we are here on earth to be tested and to try to be perfect like the Savior. To seek to become more like him, our loving Father in Heaven has given us modern-day revelation that we study, ponder, and prayer, and that we might make our weak things become strong. 


The gospel of Jesus Christ is for everyone. The Lord says this several times throughout the scriptures, that he is "no respecter of persons." I'm grateful for a loving Heavenly Father that sent his beloved son, Jesus Christ, to earth to teach us how to live like him, and I'm grateful for modern revelation given to a young, imperfect prophet that was "made strong" by the Lord so that he could lead us in restoring the full gospel of Jesus Christ to the earth.

Sunday, November 15, 2020

Ether 1-5: The Brother of Jared Prayed - What we can learn about sincerely praying, listening, and heeding the Lord's guidance

Update: I did not include the timelines and maps I made about the Book of Ether in this post but you can find it in a follow-up post here.

I am teaching virtual adult Sunday School this Sunday. It has been many months since I taught. We have several Adult Sunday School teachers, and we didn't start having virtual Sunday School for a long time so it just hasn't come around to me yet. 

I read all of the verses that are part of this week's lesson by Monday, then spent the rest of the week re-reading some scriptures, reading the Come Follow Me manuals, and reading General Conference talks that came to my mind as I studied. I consider those thoughts to be promptings that should be investigated. Why am I sharing all of this?

This afternoon (Saturday), I prayed to my Heavenly Father, and asked for his guidance in focusing on the things that the class would need to hear. I asked that I might have his Spirit with me, the way I have felt so many times this year as I have spoken to Him in prayer and listened for a response through feelings and through my scripture study. As I said these words aloud, I felt overwhelmed by his love for me. I know Heavenly Father listens and that if we are obedient, he will answer our prayers in his own time and his own way. He loves us. He loves us so much.

As I reflected on this powerful affirmation that my Heavenly Father is listening to me, I recalled how many times I have felt flooded with love this year. I think I have Heard Him more times this year than at any other point in my life. I have also sought him more deeply than at any other point in my life, and I don't think it's a coincidence that as I have sought to Hear Him, he has responded with love and kindness, and in some cases, he has responded with comfort. I shared one experience with feeling the Lord comfort me when I gave a pre-recorded talk in May, which I called "Turn to the Lord for Peace - the Importance of Remembering."

One of the big focuses of the Book of Ether is prayer, and how the Brother of Jared prayed, so this experience this afternoon was particularly meaningful. 

by Robert T. Barrett

The Brother of Jared Prayed
One of the overwhelming lessons we learn from Ether is the power of prayer. The Come Follow Me Manual for Sunday School summarizes it by saying, "As we continually call upon the Lord, He will reveal his will."

Let's look at how the Brother of Jared Prayed. Click to enlarge the images below.




Some of the things to point out is:

1. The brother of Jared goes to the Lord with a specific problem but also a specific solution for the problem. "Please don't confound the language of my family." Followed by, "Please don't confound the language of my friends."

2. The brother of Jared goes to the Lord many times. 

3. The brother of Jared listens to the Lord. When his fears about the vessel being too dark are too broad of a request for the Lord, and the Lord asks him to come up with a solution, Jared comes up with a miraculous idea that takes great faith.

4. The Lord answers the Brother of Jared's prayers because of their great faith and "because this long time ye have cried unto me:"


I am reminded of Elder Uchtdorf's talk  that we're fine, because of our God that can do miraculous things and is always there for us, but that things might worse before they get better.



Again, I spoke about this in this video talk: "Turn to the Lord for Peace - the Importance of Remembering.", but when Alma fled evil King Noah with his followers, then were discovered by the wicked Lamanites and the priest of Noah, things worse better ... but they were faithful and they turned to the Lord, their fears were hushed, and things worse, but then they got better.


We just need "calm and clear-headed trust," as Elder Uchtdorf advises. "You muster your faith. And you listen for the guiding word of the Lord and His prophet to lead you to safety."

To be successful in turning to the Lord, we need to humble ourselves, and we need to remember how to recognize answers to prayer.





It's important to remember that we ALL have opportunities to be chastened and improve. The brother of Jared was "a man highly favored of the Lord" yet the Lord chastened him for three hours because he remembered not to call upon the name of the Lord." This was in Ether 2:14, after the families had reached the seashore and camped there for four years. The Lord wanted them to cross the great sea and go to the Promised Land, as they had requested, but I think when they arrived at the shore, they had been traveling for some time and felt pretty comfortable resting there. I imagine the Lord patiently waited and after four years, he had to have a talk with the Brother of Jared. 


Our church leaders and the scriptures have reminded us that the Lord rebukes whom he loves. **Update: In my lesson today, P.W. from my ward gave an example of a high school coach that was really tough on him. This coach was maybe a little hard on a group of young sixteen-year-olds. However, the coach one day said that they would know that the coach had given up on them if he stopped rebuking them and stopped showing interest in how to improve them." When we liken this to our Father in Heaven, he famously rebuked the Brother of Jared and the Latter-day prophet Joseph Smith. Obviously, these are great men that we look to for guidance on how to better follow in Jesus' footsteps. A rebuke doesn't mean less love. It means an opportunity to revaluate ourselves, repent, and improve.




 
While it's tempting to rest by the seashore like the Brother of Jared's family did for four years, as the trials in our lives ebb and flow, we need to always look to the Lord for gratitude, guidance, and needed course corrections. I'm so grateful for my Father in Heaven and the care he took to protect these records so that we can learn from these great men. 











Sunday, July 19, 2020

Alma 32-35: Alma Taught the Zoramites Faith, Humility, and Prayer

Ten days ago, a six-year-old boy threw himself in front of his four-year-old sister when a German shepherd began charging them. They had just entered the backyard of the home that their family was visiting when the dog began to charge them. The six-year-old successfully protected his sister, while being bitten in the face, a wound that required 90 stitches to close.







I first read this story on KSL News, where it stated that in the account repeated by his father, the boy, Bridger Walker, said that “after the dog bit him, he yelled for his sister to run away; and when the dog released his grip, he ran to his sister, leading her to a safe part of the yard.” 

I thought of this boy’s bravery and sacrifice as I read Alma 32-35 in the Book of Mormon. If I were to summarize each of the four chapters of Alma 32-35 in one word per chapter, the words I would choose are: humility, prayer, prepare, and faith. In summary, these chapters are about Alma preaching to the poor among the Zoramites who had not been allowed into the synagogues to worship. Alma taught that if we humble ourselves before God, if we understand that we can pray to him anytime, anywhere, and if we listen and prepare for the day when we will one day meet God and be held accountable for how we have lived this life, our faith will make us whole. In these chapters, many people turned away from the incorrect beliefs they had been following in order to turn to God. They were persecuted for their beliefs and had to leave their homes to find somewhere to worship safely.

Faith
I compare these themes and stories to this boy’s faith and how he had been taught. His family had studied the scriptures and in a Sunday discussion shortly before the attack, talked about personal sacrifice and service. Bridger knew what was important to him, his family. His sister was smaller than him, and he made his decisions without hesitation.

Remember, Bridger was only six, and while suffering from a wound that required 90 stitches, his top-most thought wasn’t calling for help, or how much he hurt, or if he was scared, it was making sure that his sister was safe. The heroism is even more significant when you realize that the boy thought he might die. In the hospital, the boy explained to his father, “If someone had to die, I thought it should be me.” 

The faith that leads to sacrifice and service comes in all shapes and sizes. It doesn’t always have to be a big, grand gestures, and it is often thankless and unnoticed, like Alma and the sons of Mosiah that earnestly taught about God in lands where they weren’t always welcome and like the followers of God that had to give up their homes to worship safely.

Alma 32:21-22 says, “21. And now as I said concerning faith - faith is not to have a perfect knowledge of things therefore if ye have faith ye hope for things which are not seen, which are true. 22. And now, behold, I say unto you, and I would that ye should remember, that God is merciful unto all who believe on his name; therefore he desireth, in the first place, that ye should believe, yea, even on his word.”

The worshippers of God showed faith that by choosing the right way they would be doing the right thing, and that was what what mattered the most. Little Bridger showed faith in the stories of sacrifice and service that his father had taught, and did what he felt was the right thing, and that was what mattered the most.

Humility
One of the big themes of this set of scriptures is humility, and how we are blessed for our humility, even more so when we are humble by choice instead of by circumstance. Alma 32:16 says, “Blessed are they who humble themselves without being compelled to be humble.” The poor had become humbled in these scriptures because they were deprived of the right to worship, and while that humility led them to the truth, Alma taught that it would be even better if they were humble out of choice.

The story about Bridger’s heroism was first shared by family members on social media but as the story has gained momentum, people have reached out to contribute to bills. I admire the humility of the family in stating that they weren’t seeking gain, and instead prayerfully identifying three charities that they asked people to consider donating to instead (Mission 22, Operation Undergroud Railroad, and The Wounded Warrior Project).

Prayer
At no point did Bridger’s family blame the family friends whose yard Bridger and his sister entered before the dog attacked Bridger. Instead, they asked those reading about their story to include the owners of the dog in their thoughts and prayers, expressing their love for that family.

Alma 33 focuses on prayer and how it is welcome to all. It quotes the prayer of the prophet Zenos, as he recounted to the Lord in prayer that he was able to prayer to him in the wilderness, in his field, in his house, in his closet, and no matter where, the Lord heard his prayers. 

The scriptures are of great hope. They share that even if we have just a little bit of hope, a little bit of faith, if we nurture it like a good seed, it will grow. In Alma 33:23, Alma concludes the chapter, “And now, my brethren, I desire that ye shall plant this word in your hearts, and as it beginneth to swell even so nourish it by your faith. And behold, it will become a tree, springing up in you unto everlasting life. And then may God grant unto you that your burdens may be light, through the joy of his Son. And even all this can ye do if ye will. Amen.”

Wednesday, June 19, 2019

Humbly Serving Others - Two Cool Stories (Team Hoyt and Shiblon)

Last Sunday, I taught a Sunday School lesson that focused on what it means to love like Jesus loved, and follow in his footsteps. While this post highlights only a small fraction of our class discussion, I want to highlight a few of the stories that I used to illustrate the lesson, for further discussion with friends and family. I have also paired this with a family/singing time lesson here: Come Follow Me - Activity and Song.

Humbling Serving Others
When Jesus Christ was here on earth, he humbly served others. Keep in mind that this was the Prince of Peace, King of Kings, Savior of the World - but he didn’t sit in a chair and wear a fancy crown. He walked many miles every day, tirelessly looking for people to serve and teach. He healed the sick, he was often engaged in defending and trying to teach at the same time to hostile Pharisees and Sadducees. Never do the scriptures talk about how the disciples praised him for being such a great teacher, healer, or leader. He wasn’t looking for adoration and praise, he was on a mission to teach everyone he knew as much as he could before he left the earth, so that we would have an understanding of how to return to heaven.
I shared some quotes and stories on Sunday about this topic. I won’t share every single quote and story here but here are the ones I most want to emphasize:

It’s About Following In His Footsteps
“At the final day the Savior will not ask about the nature of our callings. He will not inquire about our material possessions or fame. He will ask if we ministered to the sick, gave food and drink to the hungry, visited those in prison, or gave succor to the weak [see Matthew 25:31-40]. When we reach out to assist the least of Heavenly Father’s children, we do it unto Him [see Matthew 24:40]. That is the essence of the gospel of Jesus Christ.”- Joseph B. Wirthlin, “The Great Commandment,” October 2007


Team Hoyt Served Each Other and Others
To emphasize this point, I shared a story about Dick and Rick Hoyt. This is a father and son. The son, Rick Hoyt was born a spastic quadriplegic with cerebral palsy. He couldn’t talk, walk, or write. It wasn’t until he was about 12 (I have heard different ages between 10-12) that, with $5000 (which is the equivalent of $30,000 today) and a talented group of engineers, they were able to have a special computer built by Tuft University, which allowed Rick to communicate by spelling out letters by pressing his head against a board. Can you imagine not being able to communicate for the first ten years of your life? Or having to communicate so slowly, letter by letter? The famous Helen Keller, both deaf and blind, threw tantrums in her childhood, so great was her frustration that she couldn’t communicate. She had to wait until Anne Sullivan came along and found a way to teach her how to communicate.

Suddenly, like Helen Keller, Rick, had a means to share his intelligence, views, and even humor with the world. In 1977, Rick learned about a 5 mile run for a college lacrosse player that had been paralyzed. Rick asked his dad to participate in the race so Dick, who was not a runner, pushed his son’s heavy wheelchair the full five miles. Dick intended to possibly only push his son around the first corner but Rick loved being in the race. Afterward, he told his dad, “When I'm out running, it feels like my disability disappears,'" Dick Hoyt said. "He called himself 'Free Bird."

Rick and Dick Hoyt went on to run for the next thirty or so years, not slowing down until Dick was in his 70s and Rick was in his 50s. They raced in triathlons, marathons, and more, including 32 Boston Marathons.

When it all started though, Dick Hoyt was criticized. “They said, ‘what are you doing dragging hour disabled son through all these races? Are you just looking for glory for yourself?’ What they didn’t realize, he was the one dragging me through all these races,” said Dick Hoyt in an interview with Associated Press. You can listen to that interview here, on “Cerebral palsy doesn’t dim marathon ambitions.”

There are so many nuances and facets to this story but I share this story now because of that early criticism that Dick faces. Just like the Savior, Dick was accused of ulterior motives. The only motive Dick had was the pure love of Christ.


By humbly serving his son, Dick not only brought joy to Rick, but he brought joy to himself. He also inspired families around the world.


In “Labour of Love Dick and Rick Hoyt,” by producers Joe Perskie and Lauren Gaffney on Real Sports, the narrators share, “These days, hundreds of families are pushing their own disabled children in races, inspired by the Hoyt’s devotion. … The Hoyts are inspiring families without disabled members too. In 12 cities across the country volunteer groups have formed to help disabled athletes who don’t have a family member to compete with them. … volunteer pushers are paired with athletes of all ages.”

For Dick Hoyt, his devotion to his son was something he did humbly, out of pure love.

Shiblon Served Humbly, Too 
One of my favorite General Conference talks of all time is by Elder Michael T. Ringwood, "Truly Good and Without Guile". In April 2015, he talked about Shiblon, the lesser known of the three sons of Alma. After all, we sing songs about Shiblon’s brother Helaman, and his great army, but is there a song about Shiblon? I love what Elder Ringwood says, though, “Shiblon was truly good and without guile. He was a person who sacrificed his time, talents, and effort to help and lift others because of a love for God and his fellowman (see Alma 48:17–19; 49:30). He is described perfectly by the words of President Spencer W. Kimball: ‘Great women and men are always more anxious to serve than to have dominion.’3””

I have come to admire those who serve quietly, who don’t seek for recognition or praise. In this way, they are just like the Savior, who wept for Lazarus when he died, who knew the hated and loved the hated, like Zaccheaus, by name.

May we be like the Savior, who said in John 13:34, “as I have loved you … love one another.”


Team Hoyt References

“When I'm out running, it feels like my disability disappears,'" Dick Hoyt remembers. "He called himself 'Free Bird."
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