The Son of Man Shall Come - List of Parables covered in this week's scripture study

In my last post, I just shared a few fun ways to teach or SING about the topic covered in this week's section of the Come Follow Me program for children, for individuals and families, and for Sunday School but I also want to share a general summary of the stories covered in this section of scripture:

From my studies about parables, I understand that:

• Parables told by Jesus were not simple. "The parable conveys to the hearer religious truth exactly in proportion to his faith and intelligence; to the dull and uninspired it is a mere story." See LDS Bible dictionary: "Parables."
• Parables need to be reviewed in the context of who the Savior was speaking to at the time, and we need to consider how the parable applies to us personally depending on where we are in life. I highly recommend reading the lengthy thoughts on parables in the Bible Dictionary, as linked in the previous bullet. I have been studying Parables in other resources but the guidance from the Sunday School manual is to teach from the scriptures and prophets, which means I try to stick to the scriptures, the manual, and General Conference talks when quoting other resources.

Highlight of the parables and stories covered in this section (Joseph Smith-Matthew 1; Matthew 25; Mark 12-13; Luke 21):

• Eagles gather at a carcass the same way men shall be gathered from the four quarters of the earth (JST-Matthew 1:25)
• The light covers the whole earth from east to west, like the coming of the son of Man shall be (JST-Matthew 1:25)
• Parable of the fig tree - "When its branches are yet tender, and it begsn to put forth leaves, you know that summer is nigh at hand; So likewise, mine elect, when they shall see all things, they shall know that he is near, even at the doors. (JST-Matthew 1:38-47)
• Parable of the ten virgins - the five that brought extra oil were prepared to meet the bridegroom, while the five that were not had to go replenish supplies and missed the bridegroom (Matthew 25:1-13)
• Parable of the talents - Those who used their talents multiplied them, while those that hoarded theirs without using them had their talents taken away from them (Matthew 25: 14-30)
• Parable of the sheep and the goats - The King will separate the sheep on the right and the goats on the left. You want to be the sheep on the right so that you can "inherit the kingdom prepared for you" and you do this by loving others (Matthew 25:32-46)
• Parable of the wicked husband - (I discussed this one in my previous post) (Mark 12:1-12)
• Question for the Savior about a woman marrying seven brothers in a row after each ones dies - she is not married to any of them in the afterlife because she was not sealed to them for all eternity (Mark 12:20-26)
• Parable of the widow's mite - The widow who donates two mites is more generous than the rich man that donated more, but it barely cut into his savings (Mark 12:42-44) (Luke 21:1-4)

"The Son of Man Shall Come" - Singing Time, Family Study ideas

While there were many parables and discussions covered in this week's section of the Come Follow Me program for children, for individuals and families, and for Sunday School, there was one theme that stood out strongly for me: Be Prepared.

In many of the parables described below, those who did not prepare missed the big event - whether it was to guard against thieves, be ready for the bridegroom they've been waiting for, watch for summer coming, or more. I feel these verses sum up one of the strong themes of many of these parables well:

-- Joseph Smith - Matthew 1:45-48

Activity to help teach these themes

With that in mind, I have been thinking about an activity that could easily work for Singing Time, Primary Lesson Time, Family Time, and even with Adults.

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For Singing Time - Option #1

In my ward, we are teaching "Come Follow Me" this month, so I would write one line from the song on each drop, and share the story of the Ten Virgins and what it means, and talk about how each drop (each line of the song) helps us be prepared to follow Jesus.

e.g., "Then let us in his footsteps tread."

What does it mean to follow in Jesus' footsteps?

How can following his his footsteps help us to be prepared to return to Heavenly Father one day?

Sing each line as the drop is chosen by the child and added to the lamp (cut the lid off the lamp and slide the oil drops in behind the lamp or just put the oil on the board around the lamp).

Then, have the children sing the song together.

You can also use giant drops and a giant oil lamp in order to have the words big enough that you can see them and put them in order on the board. 

For Singing Time - Option #2

Put a different line of a song on each drop, or put the title of a song on each drop.

If you go with the first option, then discuss what the line of that song means (from songs you have been practicing and reviewing this year of course). Then have children guess what song the line is from, using the tune of the line as a hint. Then, put the drop in the oil lamp.

If you go with the title of the song, then talk about how the song helps you be prepared for the Savior, and/or have the children share one line they like from the song and why, and talk about how that prepares them for the Savior. 

For Families or Self

Either pre-write ways you can prepare for the Savior, with or without a scripture reference to look up, and then have kids take turns picking a drop, and looking it up and discussing it 

- or - 

For yourself, think of ways you can prepare for the Savior that are specific and actionable, e.g., "read scriptures daily this week" - Choose small, actionable, achievable tasks, then draw a drop out every morning or the night before to work the next day.

Behold, Thy King Cometh

"Behold, Thy King Cometh" section covers Matthew 21-23; Mark 11; Luke 19-20, and John 20. (Come Follow Me - For Individuals and Families, Come Follow Me - For Primary, and Come Follow Me - For Sunday School)

Most notable stories covered:

• The fig tree that bore no fruit
• Zacchaeus in the Sycamore Tree
• Jesus' triumphal entry into Jerusalem during the last week of his life
• Jesus cleansing the temple
• The hypocrites that wore phylacteries on their heads and arms to appear more righteous
• The Parable of the Two Sons
• The Parable of the Wicked Husbandman

While I loved all of these stories for different reasons, I am focusing on the two that affected me the most personally as I studied the scriptures.

Zacchaeus in the Sycamore Tree

I love the story of Zacchaeus because it's a story that probably everyone has experienced at some point in their lives, and it reminds us that we are loved. Everyone has at some point been made to feel rejected, alone, embarrassed because this is human nature - it happens in the schoolyard when two little children argue, it happens as we grow and develop relationships, and sometimes it happens when we do something that makes us feel unworthy in one way or another. Zacchaeus was hated by all because he was deemed a traitor for collecting taxes from his fellow Jews, yet he desperately wanted to be near and hear Jesus, so he climbed a tree. Jesus, with his pure light and love, looked at the heart of this man who had been rejected by others, and invited him to come down from the tree and come inside.

This powerful story reminded me of a talk by Elder Larry Echo Hawk in April 2018, "Even as Christ Forgives You, So Also Do Ye." His family grieved the loss of his brother, a promising young lawyer, who was killed by a nineteen year old drunk driver. Elder Hawk says of the day of the court hearing that sentenced the drunk driver to prison,

"After a moment, my parents and sister stood up and walked to the driver’s parents and offered them words of comfort and forgiveness. The men shook hands; the women held hands; there was deep sorrow and tears for all and a recognition that both families had suffered immensely. Mom, Dad, and Katy led the way with their quiet strength and courage and showed our family what forgiveness looks like.
That outreach of forgiveness in those moments caused my own heart to soften and opened a pathway to healing. Over time I learned how to have a forgiving heart. Only with the help of the Prince of Peace was my painful burden lifted. My heart will always miss Tommy and Joan, but forgiveness now allows me to remember them with unfettered joy. And I know we will be together again as a family."

This drunk driver did something that brought great wrath on him and had reason to be hated, but just as the Savior was able to look on the heart of Zacchaeus, Elder Hawk's family was able to look on the heart of this young driver's family.

Relating this to Primary children:

• Talk about a Christlike trait that you see in each family member, and about how the Lord looks upon the heart.
• In Singing Time or a larger group, draw names from a jar and when the child is called up, let them pick any song they would like to sing. Share one Christlike trait you see in that child. 
• I am a Child of God reminds us that we are all children of a loving Father in Heaven

The Parable of the Wicked Husbandman

In Matthew 21: 33-44, Jesus tells the parable of the wicked husbandman. In the story, a householder (a person who owns or rents a house) prepares a vineyard and a winepress, and rents it out to a husbandmen (a farmer). When it is time to collect rent, the landlord sends servants to collect from the farmer. In a horrifying sequence of events, the farmer doesn't just kill the servants to avoid paying rent - he has the servants beaten and stoned. The landlord then sends a new set of servants, and the farmer does the same thing. The landlord finally, he sends his son, thinking, they will respect the landlord's son. He says, "They will reverence my son."

This part of the story is so upsetting to me - that the landlord knowingly sent his son into danger, to a wicked farmer, trusting that the farmer would respect the son the way he should respect the landlord. The reason this part of this story upsets me is that the landlord took such a great risk, and in taking that risk, lost his precious, beloved son.

Now think of this story in the greater context - that the Lord of the vineyard (of the earth and its people) is Heavenly Father, and the precious Son is our beloved Jesus Christ. Heavenly Father first sent servants (prophets, teachers, and and missionaries), then he sent his Son (the Savior Jesus Christ), knowing that not everyone would love his servants or his Son. And the wicked husbandmen (priests and teachers of Israel) killed them all.

This story brought home to me the great love our Father in Heaven has for each one of us, that he knowingly sent his son, Jesus Christ, who also knew that he was coming to sacrifice himself - all so that each imperfect person here on the earth could be blessed by the atonement to seek eternal life. The parable is about the real life greatest sacrifice in the history of our world. It's upsetting, but it's also beautiful in that it's the true story of our Father's love for us, and our love for him. Verse 44 says, "The kingdom of God shall be taken from you, and given to a nation bringing forth the fruits thereof." In relation to the parable - the vineyard will be taken from the wicked farmer and to someone else that is worthy and wants to reap the fruits of the vineyard. 

As I studied this gut wrenching parable, I also thought about the Parable of the Laborers in the Vineyard that I studied the previous week and how they relate - in both cases the Kingdom of Heaven is available for everyone.

Relating this to Primary children, with music:

• Love On Another - If we love our neighbors as ourselves, we would not want to do harm to them. Sing this song while passing a heart around the room. When the song stops, have whomever is holding the heart share one story they love about Jesus.

Come Follow Me - What Lack I Yet?

I taught Sunday School today. I covered two lessons from the "Come Follow Me" manual, reviewing the Individuals and Families manual as well as the Sunday School manual. This is the second of of the two lessons. The quotes for the first one and the story about Chris the lost sheep are in previous posts, as linked. I of course did not have time to read all of these quotes with the class, nor do I expect to, but I had them ready should I feel guided to head that direction with the lesson. These are all quotes that came to me as a result of my study and preparation, or more frequently, as inspiration - talks that came to my mind as I read and studied certain scripture passages. Since they are not specifically referenced in either manual as most came as a result of further study, I want to share them here. The bolded sections are the topics under which the lesson and quote was or would have been shared.

MARRIAGE BETWEEN A MAN AND A WOMAN IS ORDAINED OF GOD

In fact, each marriage starts with two built-in handicaps. It involves two imperfect people. Happiness can come to them only through their earnest effort. Just as harmony comes from an orchestra only when its members make a concerted effort, so harmony in marriage also requires a concerted effort. That effort will succeed if each partner will minimize personal demands and maximize actions of loving selflessness.

-- “Celestial Marriage” October 2008, Russell M. Nelson

The kind of marriage required for exaltation—eternal in duration and godlike in quality—does not contemplate divorce. In the temples of the Lord, couples are married for all eternity. But some marriages do not progress toward that ideal. Because “of the hardness of [our] hearts,” the Lord does not currently enforce the consequences of the celestial standard. He permits divorced persons to marry again without the stain of immorality specified in the higher law.
-- April 2007, “Divorce,” Dallin H. Oaks

“Because you do not happen to be married does not make you essentially different from others. All of us are very much alike in appearance and emotional responses, in our capacity to think, to reason, to be miserable, to be happy, to love and be loved. “You are just as important as any others in the scheme of our Father in Heaven, and under His mercy no blessing to which you otherwise might be entitled will forever be withheld from you. You are precious and important to Him. You are precious and important to the Church. You are precious and important to all of us”
-- “To Single Adults,”  President Gordon B. Hinckley, Ensign, June 1989, 72

Our Heavenly Father declared, “This is my work and my glory—to bring to pass the immortality and eternal life of man.”²⁰ The Atonement of His Beloved Son enabled both of these objectives to be realized. Because of the Atonement, immortality—or resurrection from the dead—became a reality for all.²¹ And because of the Atonement, eternal life—which is living forever in God’s presence, the “greatest of all the gifts of God”²²—became a possibility. To qualify for eternal life, we must make an eternal and everlasting covenant with our Heavenly Father.²³ This means that a temple marriage is not only between husband and wife; it embraces a partnership with God.²⁴
-- ““Celestial Marriage” October 2008, Russell M. Nelson

ETERNAL LIFE IS AVAILABLE TO ALL - NO MATTER HOW EARLY OR LATE WE ACCEPT THE GOSPEL

Brothers and sisters, there are going to be times in our lives when someone else gets an unexpected blessing or receives some special recognition. May I plead with us not to be hurt—and certainly not to feel envious—when good fortune comes to another person? We are not diminished when someone else is added upon. We are not in a race against each other to see who is the wealthiest or the most talented or the most beautiful or even the most blessed. The race we are really in is the race against sin, and surely envy is one of the most universal of those. Furthermore, envy is a mistake that just keeps on giving. Obviously we suffer a little when some misfortune befalls us, but envy requires us to suffer all good fortune that befalls everyone we know!
- Elder Jeffrey R. Holland,  “The Laborers in the Vineyard” April 2012

Two years ago, the Lord touched my dear mother’s heart, which helped her decide to receive the ordinance of baptism. I had waited for that day to take place for almost 35 years. In order for her to make that decision, many members of the Church truly ministered to her as Christ would. One Sunday, she felt she should go to church. She followed the prompting. …  she was very impressed with the boy’s innocent act of kindness, which he had learned in his home and at church. It was a tender moment for her. She had a strong impression that God was inviting her to come and follow the Savior. She felt she should be baptized.
-- Elder Takashi Wada, “Feasting upon the Words of Christ,” April 2019

As I matured and began to understand the magnificence of Heavenly Father’s plan, I often said to myself, “I don’t want one more Christmas present! I just want to be sealed to my parents.” That longed-for event did not happen until my parents were past 80, and then it did happen. I cannot fully express the joy that I felt that day,³ and each day I feel that joy of their sealing and my being sealed to them.

-- President Russell M. Nelson,  “Revelation for the Church, Revelation for Our Lives,” April 2018

THE SAVIOR WILL GUIDE US CLOSER TO HIM AS WE ASK FOR HIS HELP

•I knew a faithful mother who humbled herself and asked, “What is keeping me from progressing?” In her case, the response from the Spirit came immediately: “Stop complaining.” … Grateful for the prompting to improve, she determined to count her blessings instead of her challenges. Within days, she felt the warm approval of the Spirit.
•A humble young man who couldn’t seem to find the right young woman went to the Lord for help:  This answer came into his mind and heart: “Clean up your language.”

•A single sister bravely asked the question: “What do I need to change?” and the Spirit whispered to her, “Don’t interrupt people when they are talking.” The Holy Ghost really does give customized counsel.

•One returned missionary found himself stressed with a very heavy schedule. He was trying to find time for work, studies, family, and a Church calling. He asked the Lord for counsel: “How can I feel at peace with all that I need to do?” The answer was not what he expected; he received the impression that he should more carefully observe the Sabbath day and keep it holy. He decided to dedicate Sunday to God’s service—to lay aside his school courses on that day and study the gospel instead. This small adjustment brought the peace and balance that he was seeking.

•Years ago I read in a Church magazine the story of a girl who was living away from home and going to college. She was behind in her classes, her social life was not what she had hoped for, and she was generally unhappy. Finally one day she fell to her knees and cried out, “What can I do to improve my life?” The Holy Ghost whispered, “Get up and clean your room.” This prompting came as a complete surprise, but it was just the start she needed. After taking time to organize and put things in order, she felt the Spirit fill her room and lift her heart.

-- Elder Larry R. Lawrence, October 2015, “What Lack I Yet?”

Brothers and sisters, there are going to be times in our lives when someone else gets an unexpected blessing or receives some special recognition. May I plead with us not to be hurt—and certainly not to feel envious—when good fortune comes to another person? We are not diminished when someone else is added upon. We are not in a race against each other to see who is the wealthiest or the most talented or the most beautiful or even the most blessed. The race we are really in is the race against sin, and surely envy is one of the most universal of those. Furthermore, envy is a mistake that just keeps on giving. Obviously we suffer a little when some misfortune befalls us, but envy requires us to suffer all good fortune that befalls everyone we know!

- Elder Jeffrey R. Holland,  “The Laborers in the Vineyard” April 2012

THE SAVIOR WILL GUIDE US CLOSER TO HIM AS WE ASK FOR HIS HELP

The message for us is clear: a repenting sinner draws closer to God than does the self-righteous person who condemns that sinner.

- “Our Good Shepherd,” Dale G. Renlund, Ensign or Liahona, May 2017, 31